You've built your child's support system
KATE
Panfile
Now Let's Build Yours
Move beyond the diagnosis to create a life that right now feels out of reach.
You’ve read the books, skimmed the blogs, and listened to the well-meaning tips from people who would crumble under a fraction of your reality.
You’ve clawed your way through red tape, fought for every scrap of support, and carried your family on your back while everyone around you acted like you were just “overreacting.”
And when you finally hit your breaking point and start looking for real help, you’re met with two choices:
- drain your savings for for support
that doesn’t fit your reality
- drown in free advice that leaves you feeling
even more suffocated.
And the worst part?
You’ve been doing this alone for so long, you’re starting to believe that maybe this is as good as it gets.
But what if it isn’t?
What if the meltdowns, the pushback,
and the constant power struggles aren’t just "bad days,"
but missed cues from a brain you’ve been taught
to control instead of understand?
What if the chaos isn’t just a phase,
but a signal you’ve been misreading?
What if there’s a way to stop drowning in the hopelessness and overwhelm without waiting for a miracle or burning yourself out trying to hold it all together?
Because I know what it’s like to feel like you’re suffocating.
To wake up in a sheer panic,
wondering if this is as good as it gets.
To feel like you alone are not enough to help your child,
no matter how hard you try.
To be so desperate for real support,
but held back by price tags that make it feel as likely as a game of Candy Land where no one fights over their gingerbread man, no one cheats and the losing siblings graciously congratulate the winner.
To feel helpless, hopeless, and trapped in a reality that feels impossible to change.
I see you. i am you. you are not alone.
You're in the right place.
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The longer you wait, the more connection you miss. Don’t let these years become a blur of burnout and breakdowns.
You Can’t Keep Pouring From an Empty Cup
Every delay means another missed opportunity for connection, calm, and real progress.
Your Family Can’t Afford for You to Wait
You’ve already paid in sleepless nights, endless Google spirals, and silent tears. You don’t have to keep paying the price of burnout.
Peace Won’t Wait for You
Every day you wait is another day you’re trying to lead your family from burnout.
Survival Mode Has a Deadline
Small wins add up. Don’t let another week slip by while you second-guess every decision.
Momentum is Everything
You don’t have to carry this alone anymore. It’s time to find your people.
Because Doing This Alone is Breaking You
YOU CAN'T PUT THIS OFF FOR EVEN ONE MORE DAY
Beyond The Diagnosis:
The N.E.S.T.
Intensive
Beyond The Diagnosis:
The N.E.S.T.
Network
select an OPtion below to Find Your Fit
Beyond The Diagnosis:
The N.E.S.T.
Community
I believe every parent should have access
to real support.
Whether there’s a formal diagnosis, a self-diagnosis, or you’re still navigating the endless maze of evaluations, this is for you.
Or maybe you’re not even interested in the label, but you’re determined to truly see and support your child for who they are.
Because it’s not about the diagnosis itself—it’s about understanding, connecting, and building a life that doesn’t feel like survival mode.
Whether you’re stretching every dollar or just want a better way, you deserve a framework that meets you where you are.
That’s why my pricing is intentionally accessible, with tiers that meet you where you are, financially and emotionally.
Because understanding your child’s brain style isn’t a luxury—it’s the foundation for connection, peace, and a life that doesn’t feel like survival mode any longer.
That life that you've been dreaming about...
it's now within your reach.
Support that fits your life...
and your budget.
Join Us
Join Us
/mo.
$37
Live Monthly Support Group ($250/month value)
Replays of Live Masterclasses/Events ($997 value)
Accountability Check-Ins ($247/year value)
Resource Library ($2497 value)
Private Online Community ($1497 value)
Welcome Orientation ($97 value)
For parents like you—in the thick of it—meltdowns, missed cues, sleepless nights, and constant second-guessing.
This is where you catch your breath, find your footing, and finally make sense of the chaos.
It’s a neurodiversity-affirming space with real-world strategies, community, and support designed specifically for parents of autistic individuals. This isn’t a luxury—it’s the foundation you need to stop drowning and start building the life you and your child deserve.
Because understanding your child’s brain style doesn’t change them. It changes the way you see, you connect, and you support them.
And that changes everything.
BEYOND THE DIAGNOSIS:
The N.E.S.T. Community
BEYOND THE DIAGNOSIS:
The N.E.S.T.
Community
Find your people
A community for parents & Caregivers of autistic individuals
A community for parents & Caregivers of autistic individuals
/year
$370
-OR-
Lock In Now!
That’s less than what you’d spend on coffee & chocolate just to survive another week.
Early Access to All Events ($497/event value)
Quarterly Live Virtual Workshops + Events ($3997/year value)
"Hot Seat" Coaching Sessions ($1997/year value)
Live Access to Monthly Masterclasses (and replays) ($2497/year value)
Everything in the N.E.S.T. Community PLUS...
Find your Footing
This is for you if you’re ready to show up, dig in, and actively connect with people who truly get it. We're moving beyond watching and waiting in a Facebook group full of strangers.
This is for you if you’re ready to show up, dig in, and connect with real people who get it. If you want to be seen, be heard, and share your hard-won wisdom with others who are walking the same path.
It’s for you if you’re tired of feeling alone in this. If you’re ready to have real conversations, ask the hard questions, and find your people—the ones who don’t flinch, don’t judge, and don’t need you to explain.
Because understanding your child’s brain style doesn’t change them. It changes the way you lead, the way you connect, and the way you find your people.
And that changes everything.
BEYOND THE DIAGNOSIS:
The N.E.S.T. NETWORK
BEYOND THE DIAGNOSIS:
The N.E.S.T.
NETWORK
A community for parents & Caregivers Who Want to Show Up, Be Seen, and Connect
A community for parents & Caregivers Who Want to Show Up, Be Seen, and Connect
/mo.
$97
/year
$970
-OR-
Lock In Now!
That’s less than a Door dash takeout order when you’re too fried to cook.
This is for you.
You’re done with bandaid fixes, small wins, and “just get through the week” strategies.
You’re not just righting the ship, you’re charting your own course. You’re the one setting the goals, calling the shots, and adjusting course when the storm hits.
And whether you’re crushing those goals or crashing and burning in spectacular fashion, you keep moving. You adapt. You persevere.
Because understanding your child’s brain style doesn’t change them. It changes the way you parent, the way you build your family’s path, and the way you rewrite your story.
And that changes everything.
BEYOND THE DIAGNOSIS:
The N.E.S.T. Intensive
Go all in
A Parent PartnershiP For those who want to lead their own journey and set an intentional path for their family, not just react to the chaos.
A Parent PartnershiP For those who want to lead their own journey and set an intentional path for their family, not just react to the chaos.
Priority Access to All Events ($897/event value)
Tightly Connected, Intentionally Capped Group of Parents (invaluable)
Direct Access to Me through Volley App (E2EE) ($2500-$5000 /month value)
Monthly Live Group Coaching Call (with opportunities for 1:1 coaching calls) ($147 value)
Personalized, Initial Coaching Call ($250 value)
Everything in The N.E.S.T. Community AND Network PLUS...
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/mo.
$197
/year
$1970
-OR-
that's Less than one week of summer camp where you cross your fingers, hold your breath, and hope for the best.
A day (or two, depending on my impatience) before the doors officially open, you’ll receive an email with your login instructions for the Community HUB—our dedicated space where the real magic happens.
Hold Tight, It’s Almost Time
You are so close...
...and I cannot wait to get started!
What's Next?
process
What It’s Really Like to Work with Me
OOHS & AHHS
Shannon A.
Kate just gets it. I never have to over-explain or question if I’m being truly understood. Kate hears the unspoken parts, the things I can’t quite put into words, because she’s lived it too. That makes all the difference.”
"Kate hears the unspoken parts, the things I can’t quite put into words.”
Mark K.
Absolutely amazing presentation! Kate’s openness and honesty, especially regarding the challenges facing parents and educators, were refreshing and crucial for our work. The information on how the autistic brain processes input was a game-changer for me. I can’t thank her enough for this insightful session!
“Kate’s take on the autistic brain were a game-changer.”
Gabby V.
Kate is truly an inspiration in the world of special education. Her ability to share her personal journey while imparting valuable knowledge creates a unique connection with her audience. I’ll carry the insights on the autistic brain with me throughout my career. This was an eye-opening experience!
“Kate’s insights on the autistic brain are unforgettable. Truly eye-opening.”
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